当她指责我迟到时，我忍不住反过来指责她总是忘记约定。

When she accused me of being late, I couldn't help but ___recriminate by pointing out she always forgets appointments.

争吵中，他们很快就开始互相指责对方的过错。

During the argument, they quickly started to ___recriminate each other's faults.