别再搞自怜派对了，积极面对问题才是解决办法。

Enough with the ___pity-party – it's time to take action and fix things.

每次考试结束后，他们的聚会就变成了一场对不及格成绩的抱怨大会。

After every exam, their gathering turns into a ___pity-party about failing grades.