devastate|devastated|devastating

她丈夫去世时，她感到非常震惊和沮丧。

She was ___devastated when her husband died.

她毁灭性的评论让他感到非常沮丧。

Her ___devastating comments left him feeling deeply upset.

他们被这个可怕的消息震惊和沮丧。

They were ___devastated by the terrible news.